Recover from the debilitating effects of divorce, and regain happiness, strength and confidence
This is the ultimate website for learning how to move forward from a divorce or relationship break up and to understand more about and minimise the effects of divorce on children.
Hi my name is Pennie Munslow and I’ve been there.
One of the most traumatic things that you will ever have to go through in your life is a divorce or relationship break up. No one understands the grief, the pain, the feeling of numbness and rejection unless they have lived through it.
What reason is there to get up in the morning anymore? But then what reason is there to go to bed either? It just feels so big and empty and cold with only you in it and you spend all night tossing and turning because however hard you try you can’t get to sleep.
When I was in this emotional turmoil I kept trying to make sense of it all and why it had happened to me. After all other people managed to have happy, settled relationships – why couldn’t I?
I then realised however that not only was I going through this but so were some of my friends and also many of my clients!! As I looked into this more deeply I realised that there were many things that we all had in common regardless of whether we were male or female, had children or were childless, were old or young, or whether the relationship had lasted for a long or short time.
In each and every case regardless of the circumstances there were always certain incredible similarities! How and whether we managed to survive always depended on the attitude of the person involved.
Was it because we as women:
- Turn the whole dreadful time into a positive experience moving forward into a happier and more successful life having enjoyed personal growth as a result of this traumatic event,
- or sink into terrible despondancy and get stuck in our emotional quagmire?
Even worse – do we fall into the same terrible situation over and over again?
Many people with relationship problems experience one or more of the following:
- Drinking to excess and suffering with the effects
- Needing prescription and anti depressants in order to function
- Engaging in one night stands to try and forget the dreadful loneliness
- Contemplating or even attempting suicide when it all gets too much
- Being committed either voluntarily or by a family member to a hospital or psychiatric ward?
These horrors could be happening to you because you are trying to obliterate the pain – just trying to get through the day in the only way that seems possible but instead all you are doing is going further into the darkness. Attempting to come to terms with the most awful situation that you could have imagined happening to you can drive even the strongest of us to any of these things.
So are you ready to stop feeling as though life is no longer worth living?
Wouldn’t it be amazing if there were steps you could take so that rather than the break up destroying you
You Can Truly Transform from the Experience
That’s right – believe it or not, you can actually turn it into a positive factor in your personal growth.
I believe that my eBook 3 Easy Steps to End Divorce Pain, in which I have set out an easy to follow process that can show anyone how to transform their experience, can really improve your quality of life. As you practise the 3 easy to follow steps over the next 21 days you will STOP feeling hate, anger and revenge – You will START enjoying life and feeling hopeful about the wonderful future awaiting you!
After only reading the first two chapters you will begin to feel a sense of understanding and a lessening of your inner turmoil. As you continue to read, your life will start making so much more sense - as if someone has turned the light switch on for you and flooded your world with brightness.
So let me start taking you down the path to uncovering the real YOU that’s been buried deep for so long that you’ve forgotten you’re there!
Ask Yourself – Are Any Of These Situations True For Me?
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Your relationship has recently broken down and you don’t know how to get through each lonely, dark, unhappy day
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You are looking for a light at the end of the tunnel – a time when you can stop feeling so bereft, so awful
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You are confused, deserate, lost
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Your emotions are run ragged between being angry, bitter, wanting revenge and wondering what you are going to do with the rest of your life
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You are trying to figure out how you are going to fill your empty hours, blaming yourself for what went wrong and undermining your own self esteem
If you’ve answered yes to any of these, then you’d better seek help before things get any worse
Whether it’s divorce help, wanting to know how to recover from divorce or relationship breakdown, or divorce anger, I can help! I can show you how to change the way you are looking at your heartbreaking situation, grow from this experience and move into a happy fulfilled future.
How do I know this?
I’ve been there myself and lived through all the pain and upset, so I know first hand what you’re going through. But also I’m a holistic counsellor, a trainer of Brandon Bays work (The Journey) which is based on the knowledge Brandon acquired when she healed herself of life threatening cancer, and a Practitioner in Elohim Healing, which is a form of energy healing. I am someone who has spent years honing my gift of intuition, have led meditations and given one on one counselling to inmates at one of the women’s prisons in New Zealand.
In addition to addressing several mind, body and soul gatherings, I have also delivered guidance to the women teacher trainee students at Whitireia Community Polytechnic in Auckland, New Zealand. As well I provide one on one counselling to individuals both in New Zealand and in UK. My mission in life is to remind people how to love themselves and heal their souls and I do this by teaching, running workshops, counselling and energy work.
Having seen so many different people suffering from relationship problems and noticing the similarities that kept popping up over and over again in different situations, I began to notice a pattern evolve that I could use to help people become balanced both energetically and spiritually.
- I have been participating for many years in mind, body and soul development circles.
- I discovered how we can each use all our senses on every level including those that are generally surpressed, especially when it comes to loving ourselves, and I now use this knowledge for the good of myself and others.
- We are so much more than just the human being we see staring back at us in the mirror.
So you see I have a deep committment to help others improve their lives and move on to a happy, productive future.
I will show you that however destructive your break up is, your life can be turned around!
Prepare for a future:
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Feeling full of joy, carefree and with no worries
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Greeting the warm welcoming sun on your face
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Enjoying the clear, deep blue sky and listening to the birds heralding a beautiful day
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Eating your breakfast outside luxuriating in the thought of all the wonderful things planned for today
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Experiencing the refreshing, tingling sensation of a cleansing, rejuventing shower on your skin
You will have discovered the way the Universal Laws work relating to your relationships. Your emotional life is fulfilled, you are in a fantastic loving relationship, but most importantly of all, by learning how to love yourself you are empowered and in control of your life and your happiness.
This can be your reality – it’s your choice. Only YOU can stop YOU from having this life!
Why wouldn’t you want to put all your anger, grief, depression and wishes for revenge behind you and spend your time having dreams again and being with your family and friends once more. I can understand you may be hesitant, but ask yourself: “What have I got to lose?”
Do you remember how you used to:
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Play with the kids and really enjoy it
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Laugh, have fun, make plans and be happy
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Appreciate the beauty of nature in all her wonder
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Genuinely smile without having to force it
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Look forward to the day ahead
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Acknowledge who you really were?
Well, You Can Be HAPPY Again!
In my eBook 3 Easy Steps to End Divorce Pain we outline simple powerful steps to take which will enable you to liberate yourself and your feelings. These are steps I use very successfully with my clients.
I also include How to Lessen the Effects of Divorce on Children. Over 70 pages of essential information anyone must read with children involved in your divorce. I have included this free because it is so important for our children to grow up with respect and balanced emotions in their future relationships.
I offer 100% refund for 30 days. There is absolutely no risk!
You have 30 days to read 3 Easy Steps to End Divorce Pain and put into practice what I reveal to you. If you aren’t completely satisfied, clear that happiness is in your own hands and within your grasp, I will refund your money with no questions asked.
Get my eBook and start reading about how you can heal and move forward with your life, how you can be your own person and feel happiness and fulfillment again.
Be True to Yourself and Take this First Action towards Loving Yourself
Pennie Munslow
www.divorce-effects.com